In life,we live so less,that we do not remember even if we hurt someone’s heart,emotion’s,feeling’s,we should care for minute,minute,who know’s what we may say that will be rude to some one,but sometime’s its not us? its other’s that are being rude.
When someone is rude to you,don’t get rude.
- Remain polite. No matter how difficult or nasty the rude person is, respond politely and maintain your dignity.
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Use manners to overwhelm their rudeness. Ask them this simple question: “Am I offending you somehow? If so, I am really sorry, no offense meant.” Most people will be taken aback by this approach and will quickly backtrack to reassure you that you have not offended them.
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Avoid responding at all. This way you remove the spark that fuels their fire. Just nod and walk off normally. Don’t sneer, don’t roll your eyes, just be pleasant in your demeanor as your saunter away from them.
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Understand where they are coming from. Much rudeness is a sign of insecurity, anger. Accept that these rude people have more than average doses of these issues and are trying to take it out on you. It is not smart, nor is it witty; it is rudeness and a guise for not being able to be polite to people.
“Treat other’s,as you treat yourself”
Book Of Life 